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" Trust "

" What is trust ? "
Right now at this point of my like i have no idea what trust mean. Isn't it strange?

"Trust is very important in relationships. Be sure to be honest with the person that you are in a relationship with. Demand honesty from the person that you are in a relationship with. This is the most important step to building trust in relationships. Trust is difficult to earn, but it is key to a successful relationship." by some one.

When your partner does not believe you - That means he does not trust you.
If your partner don't have faith in you - He doesn't trust you.
If your partner questions you so much (more then usual) - He doesn't trust you.

Well , this is what i believe. May be not right but for my understanding this is it .
Another thing , when we say its because you does not trust me. They does not believe that.

Why is it so tough to admit it when someone we love has so accurately spoken the truth?
Why do we struggle so much with accepting something that is so obvious?

Then blaa ablaa blaaaaaaaaaaa

Comments

  1. minrOctober 24, 2011 at 11:24 AM

    you say "demand honesty". i say you can only earn honesty. just trust with no conditions attached.
    and it's not necessary to be 100% honest all the time. sometimes it's better to keep somethings for yourself. some honesty will hurt others... what is important is mutual understanding and respect...
    but hey, keep blogging. we can all learn from our experiences :)

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  2. UnknownOctober 24, 2011 at 8:01 PM

    Thank you dear.
    U r right ....

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  3. UnknownOctober 24, 2011 at 8:05 PM

    OOh that wording was written by some on els . i saw it from google . thats y i wrote "by some on"

    Thnks

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