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Stages of a relationship

1- Stranger :
Dont know much about each other,  Have so much to talk and so much to ask.  The sweet and innocent time.

2- Getting to know each other:
Each tell his/hers truth,  The life story .At this stage some ppl find out that this is not the right person for his / her. they mite breakup.
Some will be disappointed but  they sees some thing about that boy/girl interesting.
For some ppl the unexpected things comes out. the hidden truth or the dark deep story of the girl/boy's life. but they are so deeply connected and that was past and the present is so good , so they decides to be together.

3-  Understanding :
They seems to understand each other very well. In fact they know each other too well.
Some time this leads to problem's.  Other time for something good.
Most of the time, they assume , expect , wish , know  .  .  .        these things leads to problems,
This is the stage where sweetness fades and they are just together.

4- Marriage or breakup.
If they are so much together and know they are made for each other ( such a meaningful word ..huh)   . some how they will find the spark in the relationship. They know even though with all the problem's they are happy when they are together.
Deep down in heart they care for each other. they love each other. They end up marrying .

Those ppl who are not sure they breakup.

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