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20th day . .

I see , what i got my self in to... Allah know what he have planed for me. . I sure wish and pray to have a good life. Away from sins. And to go  in the path Allah showed us. Life is an exam. We have to be passiant and believe .

Finally the Knot

After all that Struggle , we ( me and boo) tied the Knot.  27th March 2013 was  the day we became man and wife.  Such a Happy Day . Thanks all for the lovely wishes and blessings .  With out you guys we would not be able to do this. Special thanks to Farubuddies , family and friends.  Thought my v close some people couldn't make it to wedding i know ur wishes are with me. May Allah give me and my husband the strength to over come all the obstacle we gonna face in married life and  wonderful life together.  ( I will ( Insha Allah) write a post about the preparation and beautiful hulhumale beach wedding in detail )

6 Years ago

6 years ago (2007) on 14th Feb we met:  The meeting which made us like each other. 6th March  : He told me he think he LOVES me , Well ,  that was the start. Day by day LOVE for each other increased , things went better, life was Happy . We were Happy together . . . We started knowing each other more , ( Even though there were things  we don't like about each other , we decided to accept it , act for better 2moro)  Announced about our relationship to others. We knew we are going to be forever. 31st May 2008 we got engaged. . .( I went to study)   Decided to get Marry after a year , The long distance relationship was tough , Things went from bad to worse.   But Still we hold on to each other. . . 2013 we decided to get marry But on this day ( 6th March 2013)   the love for each other is like a compromise , We have to be together. We are not happy with each other. I have no idea what happened to the LOVE we shared. Last nigh...

Stages of a relationship

1- Stranger : Dont know much about each other,  Have so much to talk and so much to ask.  The sweet and innocent time. 2- Getting to know each other: Each tell his/hers truth,  The life story .At this stage some ppl find out that this is not the right person for his / her. they mite breakup. Some will be disappointed but  they sees some thing about that boy/girl interesting. For some ppl the unexpected things comes out. the hidden truth or the dark deep story of the girl/boy's life. but they are so deeply connected and that was past and the present is so good , so they decides to be together. 3-  Understanding : They seems to understand each other very well. In fact they know each other too well. Some time this leads to problem's.  Other time for something good. Most of the time, they assume , expect , wish , know  .  .  .        these things leads to problems, This is the stage where sweetness fades...

The big Question ? ? ?

When will be the right time . . .? Last year , i thought DEC would be the best time for the knot.  But he found it not Possible. well my side it was possible, we had a house, my family was in Male' and it was good for me.  but  . .. . . . Then i thought 31-01-13 will be a good date, cos of the date actually,  but he said NO  and he says he have another plan. So now am out of  idea's or suggestion. In FEB , he say it can be possible but for me only positive thing i see is he finally suggesting a date. I hope he will make this possible. I have so many idea's for this but  . . . .. Insha Allah will show us a way to do this.