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For the betterment of you and me

Once there was this man who used to care for me a lot. At least he showed his caring for me for some days.
Days went by. We didn't go for a relation. We thought of going but he couldn't find a hope  for   us being together cos of his life style.
He is bound to his kids and others.
Anyway, cos I wasn't also looking for a relationship we took step back stayed as friends.

As a friend I used to, let him know that I was there for him if he needs me and if he needs any help I would help him. I Tried to get to know how he was doing and all now and then.

But some how I started feeling that he didn't care about me. He doesn't ask me how I was doing, how my life was. He didn't bother to ask whether I had a bad day or good day or anything.

As per as I know he takes care of his friend.  he says,  How he was there for his friends. And I have seen very closely when it came to new friends. A mutual friend of us, he was ready to ease a bad day that friend was having. He tried to know what's going on in that life.
He left me alone, not as much  But I felt left alone.  He didn't care enough to know about my life. He wasn't interested to know about me I can see that from his talks and his action.

Then I decided, I should put an end to this drama.  I am not gonna be those woman who does things to please others even they does not care for you. They say it's empathy care, well I guess it's the worst kind of care.
 "There have to be two way round dear, if u had a bad day if u wish me to ease ur bad bay like that I too have a bad day. Just hear me out but no ur, not interest. "
So here is it I am putting an end to this mess.
Live ur life as u like. Am out of ur life.
Better for u and me.

18 JUNE 2017

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