Bitter Swyt Memory

??? When he went  back to his home island i told him to do just one thing for me, not actually for me but for us. it is to register my number to dhiraagu service ( 10rf spend and get free call ).  Now 10 days went he couldn't do that. If it was something am suppose to do , and i didn't  do for this long, I would be the badest person ever. It really hurts , when he fail to do one thing which will make us be connected with  a little cost. He have reason for every thing , i dont'.  I know i did push him little bit far on this.  I was hurt and i wanted him to do that for us . Do it like  he also want to do that. Why is that always i have to be the one who have to do evrything ( even calling each day , my sunna , not his) I have to understand him, i have to care for him , i have to look after him. What about my feeling, what abut he understanding me . Why don't he actually do that to make me happy. To bring a smile on my fa...

  For last  5 months boo was here with me in male' . We spend lot of time together with our ups and down. We had good time most of the time. Some days crises are so high that we don't know what to do. Things went from better to worse and worse to better.  Pressure from family and  other pressure went really high on some days. He was searching for a job so badly. After the crises of changing Govt its v hard to find a job in this Maldives. ( Ehndhuvahakun evaahaka) Grrrrrr.   Plus it was Off season for tourists .. damn huh. .  Any way ,  now he went back to his Island and things are changed. Miss his so much. Our financial status is also not so good as am the only one earning for now. Calling and Messaging is also v less these days. Lets hope for the best , he will be coming back after Ramazaa. Insha Allah , things will be different then. 

Who would you Prefer . . ? (*;*) I was thinking the other day . . Boy frnd o Husband . . .who will be better . Who would show their care most ?

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I have been thinking a lot about wedding . Am i ready? Am i financial capable for a grant Wedding ? Am i settled? Have i done everything for a wedding? When all these Question comes in to my mind ... Another Question comes in to my mind .. Why are we getting married? Ans is To share our life together, have a partner till the end. To give and Get love for the rest of our life. To have a happy and stable life. Does any of these have anything to do with those question i have asked? NO .... I guess. Then Why we cant get marry at the time we feel like marriage? Why do we think so much about it? Why do we so many plans for it? Why do we spend so much on it? Another part is we put our parents in such a difficult position , during the wedding. 50% of marriages are not with the perfect agreement between two families. But still we force them to stay in one room and face all the Drama. Its just a view . . . I am putting so much thoughts in it . . . :)