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Y do lovers have fights . . . ?

My boyfriend find it difficult to understand me. Its not his fault, i also don't understand me . My theories and the way of thinking is totally wired , I dont think like a normal ppl. I have noticed it.
Cos of things happened in past , the way i look at things are different , NOt the way most of the ppl think, when i tell i think abt what eva we are talking my bf finds it so assorted. hard to understand what am saying , ( most of the time i give examples)

NOw a days we fight a lot, i dont want that to happen , we have these 2 to 3 issues ..
1. pics
2. sleeping out
3. being too buxy

i have been thinking about them , i knw where is my problem , bt i feel like he have to give me some loose, i mean not so tight rules , ( sorry love ehn word e hithaka nai migadeega.)

I will get a way to rid of these fights and come to conclusion o and agreement ...

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  1. AnonymousDecember 25, 2010 at 1:29 PM

    Usually, it comes down to three things. They are issues in trusting or trust issues, possessiveness and misunderstanding these are the base lines of most fights among couples even in institutions like marriage. Instead of fighting try to talk and make a little space to let him think for himself.. might help :)

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  2. UnknownJanuary 1, 2011 at 4:59 PM

    thanks v much . . .

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